The Ted Lesso Way for Equestrians

Based on a character created by NBC Sports to promote soccer coverage, the TV show Ted Lasso offers coaching insights for coaches of all sports, including riding. Ted Lasso's coaching approach is centered around positive reinforcement and encouragement. He believes in uplifting his team members by highlighting their strengths and achievements. Instead of focusing solely on mistakes or shortcomings, Ted fosters a culture of positivity and growth. By acknowledging and celebrating small victories, he boosts the team's confidence and inspires them to strive for continuous improvement.

While riding can seem like a solo venture compared to a team sport like soccer, riding instructors should recognize their barn's team aspect. Riders should be encouraged to support and cheer for each other at home and shows, creating a sense of camaraderie. There must be an expectation of good sportsmanship and empathy amongst riders, proactively addressing any behavior that threatens to escalate into bullying or harassment. Coaching is not just about physical performance- it also involves providing emotional support. Ted's success is largely due to creating an environment where players are safe to express their emotions and vulnerabilities, both to coaches and each other.      

                       

Recognize and Acknowledge Effort

                                         

Ted provides his players with constructive feedback and reinforcement. He offers praise and recognition when there is improvement or success, regardless of the game's win/loss, boosting confidence and morale. When players make mistakes or are struggling, Ted provides feedback in a supportive and constructive manner, focusing on growth and learning rather than placing blame. This approach helps develop resilience and maintain a positive mindset.

Embrace the Lasso Way. Notice and acknowledge riders' efforts at home and shows. Highlight and recognize success and progress. Verbal praise is a powerful tool for encouragement. Finding ways to boosts confidence and encouragement to continue working hard is a crucial part of effective coaching.

While using positive reinforcement, it's essential to provide constructive feedback to help riders improve. Frame feedback in a positive and supportive manner, focusing on areas for growth rather than criticism. Offer guidance and suggestions for improvement while emphasizing their potential and progress. Help riders develop a growth mindset by reframing failures as learning experiences and encouraging them to embrace challenges.

Make sure to recognize not only big milestone achievements, but also smaller more common ones. By breaking down major goals into manageable smaller skills, riders develop their abilities and build confidence in their capabilities.

Communicate Often and Clearly

Ted and his coaching staff regularly have one-on-one meetings with the players as a way to better understand individual needs, concerns, and aspirations. These meetings provide an opportunity for open and honest dialogue, allowing a tailored approach to coaching each player. Provide a safe space for riders to express their concerns, fears, or frustrations, and offer support and guidance. Riders should feel free to provide feedback to coaches about what is working well and any areas they would like to focus on. This mutual approach to feedback allows for continued growth and improvement.

Coaches should likewise adapt their communication style to the individual. Some riders may respond better to direct, assertive communication, while others may prefer a more collaborative and supportive approach. While Ted Lasso may not have extensive knowledge of soccer tactics at the beginning, he recognizes the importance of adapting his coaching style to the sport. He seeks advice from experienced soccer coaches and players, continually learning and evolving. Ted's willingness to learn and seek guidance demonstrates humility, helping him gain respect and become a better coach.

Address the Mental Game and Sportsmanship

Take the time to understand and empathize with riders' emotions, both during training and competitions.Coaching is not without its challenges, and Ted Lasso teaches us the value of resilience and maintaining a positive outlook. Despite facing setbacks and adversity, Ted maintains an optimistic attitude and encourages his team to do the same. He views obstacles as opportunities for growth and motivates his players to persevere. By fostering a culture of resilience and positivity, Ted inspires his team to overcome hurdles and achieve their full potential.

“You know what the happiest animal on Earth is? It’s a goldfish. You know why? Got a ten-second memory. Be a goldfish, Sam.” Remind your riders to not focus on defeat and to instead focus on the journey. Teach riders the importance of respecting opponents, officials, and the rules of the sport. Encourage good sportsmanship, such as congratulating others, showing gratitude, and accepting both victories and defeats with grace.

Effective communication fosters understanding, trust, and collaboration between coaches and riders. By actively listening, providing clear instructions, offering feedback, and maintaining open dialogue, coaches and riders can enhance their communication skills and ultimately improve their performance and relationship.

Ted Lasso is not just a great TV show; it's a masterclass in coaching and leadership. Through his unwavering positivity, empathy, and genuine care for his players, Ted teaches valuable lessons about what it means to be a successful coach and show up for your students. By embodying the principles of kindness, resilience, and authentic leadership, trainers can create a supportive and empowering barn environment that brings out the best in their riders. Take a page from Ted Lasso's playbook and inspire greatness, in and out of the saddle.